Nothing is for granted. All relationhsips need effort to work

  

One of the most complicated situations in people’s relationships is at that moment of bitterness and disappointment between two individuals, to remain faithful one to the other, and concentrate on the good things that made you originally appreciate and love the other person and eventually decide consciously to keep him or her in your life. We are all allowed to make mistakes, we are all allowed to go through difficult circumstances that can affect our relationships and in effect we all have the right to change… 

From an energy point of view, when we focus on the negative aspects of the other person, it is all we will get from him or her, and actually quite intensely. On the contrary, our faith in the good characteristics of the other person will eventually triumph and help both ourselves and others to pull our self together.

This reconnection between people is always glorious; it brings them even closer and enhances the true bonds of friendship and love. Let’s not forget that people around us are a mirroring of what we have inside us, whether we realize it or not in other words, the projection of our inner world.

Still, if this reconnection does not take place after all, this is fine as well; we continue the journey of life carrying fewer burdens, proving the need for closure in a specific relationship. We are grateful for what we have been taught and we move forward.

At the same time, it is important to give credit to the other person as well. In contemporary life where the Ego prevails, we have no idea what it means to give credit to someone else. What happens is that we do not know how to love, how to accept others and how to value our self…

I am referring to all kinds of relationships – friendship, love, family and professional affairs. It seems that we are all caught up in our small universe.

It is good to step out of this illusion, this drama and the conviction that “I am the only one who is right” and most importantly escape our ego. This way we can become better. It doesn’t matter who is the strongest. Love has nothing to do with this after all.